Introverts

I read this article/blog post about introverts and thought I would put my own spin on it.

So, if you're not completely aware of or sure about what an introvert is like, allow me to explain. I know a little bit about introverts because, well,  I am one.

1. We "recharge" alone. "We tend to get completely worn out by socializing." This is true. We enjoy being around people but in small doses. After big events or even just being with people, we enjoy having time to relax and "recharge".
2. We most likely hate crowds. Crowds are excellent.....for extroverts. As for introverts, we don't like not having control over our environment. We tend to blend into the background where we feel comfortable in situations like this.
3. Silence insn't awkward. "I can sit beside you in silence and not think we are having a bad time." We don't mind talking but if we don't feel the need to talk then its equally ejnoyable as silence. Also, I just enjoy being with people so conversation isn't a requirement. Silence really isn't awkward for me. BUT! Never tell an introvert they are "too quiet". That's just how we are, so deal with it.
4. We aren't shy. They may seem quiet to you, but if you initiate a conversation, you might be pleasantly surprised. Being shy and introverted are two totally different things.
5. Being extroverted is a bit of an allusion. "I have no problem getting up in front of a group of people and giving a talk. I don't even get nervous by a question and answer period. But - here is the thing -  Iwill need major recharge time afterwards and I won't be able to keep up this extroverted illusion all day. I can turn it on to dazzle a crowd, but if you take me out for lunch afterwards, I'll probably just listen to you talk. I am an excellent listener." 
6. Our "resting face". Did I get quiet? Do I have a mean look on my face? I'm not judging you; I'm just wrapped up in my thoughts with my "resting face" on. I might have even forgotten you were there." Seriously though!!! We aren't mad, we just aren't aware of the expression on our face 100% of the time.
7. We daydream. Introverts get really wrapped up in their own thoughts. We love listening and forming thoughts in our head and seriously analyzing what is going on. Me personally,  I daydream. I can kind of get lost in my own little world and forget about whatever is happening around me.
8. We're not the best at connecting. We normally wait for other people to reach out to us when we need it instead of us reaching out to people. 
9. We don't linger. After social events, we get our stuff and go. We don't linger or mingle with people to make plans, we leave. 
10. We have strong opinions. Introverts have very strong opinions, meaning, we know what we think but we don't necessarily have to voice them 100% of the time. Just ask us, we will be honest.

So that is my take on Introverts. As an introvert, verbal communication isn't my strong point with people but if you can pull me out of the clouds and have a decent conversation,  I can be pretty fun. If you want to read the original article that gave me my inspiration here is the link:

http://playfullytacky.com/2014/07/16/things-you-should-know-about-introverts/