This isn't true for everyone. If you're a confident straightforward person, you probably don't struggle with this too often. For those people who have opinions and dreams but don't know how to express them, this is a constant struggle.
There's that common expression "Don't judge a book by its cover." Try applying that to people. Cheesy but true. How many times do we brush people off by how they look or a first impression. Obviously you can't know everything about a book just by reading the back of the book.
I am not claiming to be perfect at expressing myself or getting to know people.
I've made countless friends who have beautifully unique minds but you wouldn't know that based on the first impression. I am that type of person you actually have to read and turn the pages. According to some I am difficult to approach or get to know, others are surprised when they start reading.
I meet people all the time and generally the first thing they say is "Tell me about yourself." Suddenly my entire life flashes by. Where would I start?
Im not claiming to be an incredibly interesting person but if people ask, I can only assume they are curious or just being polite. I normally stick with the basics: name, hometown, hobbies. The reason for that is because I am afraid to say anything else. The things I believe in or what makes me who I am are things I could talk about for hours.
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