Yell back.
I've had unique experiences with friends and sometimes random people where they are so frustrated with something is consumes there focus. It is never a good idea to let angry people be alone for extended periods of time. I had a friend punch a wall and break his hand because he kept things bottled up. Don't punch a wall, break your hand and bottle things up.
I've been yelled at, I've listened to people yell for no reason except to get it out of their system, and I've had people get in my face. Don't bicker, don't lie to them, and don't back down. Yell back to show them how ridiculous they look. This has always worked for me (Except when it comes to parents, use calm voices for them).
This might seem strange for a girl but I get a little excited when someone is angry. It means I get a chance to test my theory. I don't go looking for confrontation, but if an opportunity presents itself...game on. I like a challenge, and raging emotion is definitely a challenge. Getting to the root of the problem is my goal and I am always honest and blunt.
If you're angry, come talk to me. Nothing will shock, offend, or scare me off.
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